Mystery of the Gefilte Fish
Once a year on the 14th day of Nisan on the Jewish calendar, some ten thousand gefiltes swim to a secluded pond just off the Sea of Galilee in Israel. These little gefites occupy the pond for only eight days, then disappear for an entire year.
No one has ever been able to find out exactly where they come from,, or where they go… we just accept it as another Passover miracle!
Happy Passover to all who are celebrating virtual family Seders! Next year in Jerusalem… Next year ANYWHERE!
COVID–19 An Optimistic “Bird’s Eye” View
Does anybody know what time it is?
Does anybody really care?
COVID–19 detriment:
One of the very first casualties of the COVID–19 was my calendar and my watch. Before social distancing, I had a set schedule that I followed from the time I woke up till the time I went to bed.
From Thursday through Sunday I was a Brand Ambassador handing out samples of Qunol CoQ10 and Turmeric at Costco. I woke up at 6 am, made coffee, ate breakfast, watched the TV shows I’d recorded the night before, showered and dressed at 8:30, left at 9 scheduled my breaks at noon, and 4pm, lunch from 2 – 2:30 and got home at 6:30 pm. For the past 2 years I knew what day it was and what time it was.
March 13 – Friday the 13th we were advised that Costco was discontinuing all product demonstrations “until further notice”.
My biorhythm clock was already messed up with the time change on March 8th, but now everything was off. I’m wide awake at 2 am, fall asleep for a few hours, then wake up at 5am! Even though I have no reason to get out of bed, I’m so full of energy I can’t get back to sleep!
On the Positive Side:
I have more energy than I’ve had in years! I’ve dusted all the furniture vacuumed, washed the windows, disinfected the bathroom and am finished by 11 am! My apartment is spotless for the first time in years!
COVID–19 detriment:
Hair salons are closed.
I had planned on taking a day off to visit my hair stylist for a haircut and color enhancement, and make an appointment with the nail salon for a mani-pedi. My appointment was next week, but now “next week” might be next month, or longer! 
(I’m sure once social distancing has been lifted, it won’t be the bars, restaurants or movies that will have long lines, it will be all the hair and nail salons and barber shops people will be waiting for hours to get into!)
On the Positive Side:
Without using a blow dryer, my naturally curly hair not only covers all the grey, it shrinks to a decent length without having to cut it, saving me time drying my hair and I also have time to polish my own nails for about $2.50 saving both time AND money!
COVID–19 detriment:
Grocery stores
Once upon a time I had to wait on-line and show my ID to get into a swanky nightclub to prove I was 21. Today, I have to wait on-line at seven o’clock in the morning at Ralphs to show my ID to prove I’m 65!
(I did hear that grocery stores were limiting the toilet paper packs to one per man and two for women. Makes sense – women do use twice as much!)
When I worked at Costco, I could enter through the employee back entrance before the store opened and, once the registers were cleaned and ready, I bought what I needed with no problem. I also found a lot of great wine that pretty much filled my shopping cart.
On the Positive Side:
Last week I went to Vons. Not only was there no line outside, but not very many people inside. While many of the shelves were empty, I found everything I needed in the kosher section and Passover aisle. No matter what the calamity, Jews EAT. Jars of Gefilte fish were on sale for $4.50, with an expiration date of November, 2022. I bought five.
Usually one box of Matzo is around $6.00, but for Passover an entire case is only $5.00. Matzo lasts at least 40 years, so the Exodus story tells us. Even though the regular pasta section was empty, there was plenty of packages of egg noodles and, no surprise, lots of sour cream and cottage cheese for noodle kugel. Found me a nice chicken and 2 dozen eggs, so now we have enough food to last until the 4th of July!
Happy Pesach!
COVID–19 detriment:
Family
Our family plans to meet in Houston next week for Passover had to be cancelled, but Passover comes every year and we’ll have plenty of opportunity to celebrate for years to come since we’re all healthy and plan on being so for a very, very long time.
On the Positive Side:
Before COVID–19 I was lucky if I heard from any one of my three daughters once a month and even then it was usually either a text message, or one little emoji. Now I’m getting three or more phone calls a day, (sometimes as early as six o’clock in the morning since one of them lives on the East Coast!) with at least one or more video Facetimes with my daughters and my grandkids! Live and in person! Ya gotta LOVE modern technology, especially now.
Since my husband retired, nothing much has changed in his routine with or without social distancing. We’ve been together 40 years this October, and I’m sure we’ll make it to celebrate our anniversary!
COVID–19 detriment:
I’ve been cooking a lot more and eating a lot more. Those five pounds I lost last month have found me again, but they won’t be hanging around for very long.
On the Positive Side:
With all the cooking, I’m constantly washing dishes, which means I’m also washing my hands 10 times a day or more!
Lastly, on a VERY positive note:
I now have the time to finally finish the novel I stated in 2011. I’d always planned on finishing “Vashti’s Daughter” but between work, social obligations and meetings, there was never enough time.
Now, I have nothing BUT time. With nowhere to go, nothing to do, I can finally do what I love the most – WRITE. Which is also why I’ve been posting a lot more to this blog these past few days than I’ve posted since I started way back in September of 2009!
While it seems that the COVID–19 nightmare has gone on for months, in reality we only started home isolation and social distancing about three weeks ago. (We probably should have started a lot sooner, but that’s a discussion for another blog) And while it seems that the current situation will be on-going forever, this is NOT the “new normal”, it’s only the “new temporary”.
It might be a difficult situation for now, but we’ve survived a lot worse and we will come out of this better, stronger and more POSITIVE than we were before the world came to a screeching halt.
In the meaning, I have a book to finish!
Enjoy!
Author Raven West 
The Perks of the Covid-19 Pandemic
Raven West ♦ May 27, 2020 ♦ Leave a comment
It’s been two about ten weeks since the world went a bit off its access and while there are many things to complain about, there are a lot more to enjoy!
Prior to the eviction of all road shows and product demonstrators, I was working four days a week at Costco. The company wouldn’t allow us to wear any colored nail polish or jewelry – so for the past 3 years I’ve had to leave my engagement ring at home and my nails were awful – breaking and chipping all the time… BUT now that I’m on “leave” LOOK AT THESE GREAT NAILS!! Did them myself yesterday since all the salons are closed.
Financial Perks:
Not bothering to blow dry my hair, not that fond of the curly look, but my husband likes it and it also covers any gray ones… so saving $ not going to a hair salon.
Wearing a mask and sunglasses when I’m at the store… no need to spend any $$ on makeup or sunscreen. The last time I put gas in my car was March 31 – it’s still nearly full – nowhere to go!
Watching some really great TV from the UK – creative talent all over YouTube – Voyager video reunion – special Broadway shows/concerts all w/out having to get dressed!
No traffic on the freeway, air is so clear I could smell grass being cut across the street! People in the stores – when I go out for groceries – are actually FRIENDLY.
When I go outside for a short walk around the block listening to Pandora – I can sing (off key) at the top of my lungs and there’s NO ONE w/in earshot to hear me!
With all this spare time, I joined Ancestry.com to see if I could find any information on my paternal grandmother. Although I was very disappointed in my search, as all of my relatives on that side of the tree are either dead, or dead to me, I did discover one really great second cousin living in NY I hadn’t seen since we were kids. We talked on the phone for over an hour – it was really great!
For a person who enjoys always doing something, this doing nothing was difficult at first, but after about the eighth week, I kinda got used to it. Procrastination has become my favorite past time!
I’ll honestly be a bit sorry when the doctors find a vaccine and life once again returns to “normal”.
Normal rush hour traffic, normal smog in the air, normal crowds pushing and shoving in the stores, normal stress of not having enough free time.
It will happen, this too shall pass, but for today, I’m going back to bed.
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